Connection is what life is all about.

When our important relationships aren’t working, everything suffers.

Yet, if you’re in a relationship that is unconventional in some way, it can be that much harder to reach out for help, for fear your relationships will be criticized, or you’ll be made to feel that you or your loved ones are the problem.

You may be navigating polyamory, open relationships, relationship anarchy, or another model that works for you but may not be honored in the world around you.

I provide affirming, nonjudgmental therapy for people exploring or sustaining unconventional relationships. Whether you need help with communication, boundaries, jealousy, or identity integration, I can help you untangle what feels stuck and honor what feels true.

This exploration comes with messy and difficult feelings that require compassion and patience. I don’t believe in force fitting anyone into monogamy or non-monogamy. I don’t believe that one or the other is more “evolved” or that there is any one right way to inhabit relationships.

I create space to explore what best fits your life and identity.

I provide relationship therapy for gay, lesbian, and bi-sexual clients. I also work with relationships where one or more people are gender non-conforming.

In particular, I’m experienced in working with couples where one person is considering a gender transition. If you are concerned about navigating this tricky emotional territory with a partner, contact me to find out how I can help.